HELPING YOUR CHILD FEEL SCHOOL READY
TEACHING OUR KIDS ABOUT BULLYING
The long summer holidays are almost over and for most kids next week represents the start of a new school year. Some will be starting school for the first time, others will be starting in new schools and others will be staying at the same school but joining new classes.
Many kids are excited to be starting back at school, but for others this can be a difficult time – one that brings plenty of opportunity to flex that all important resilience muscle. This can be a difficult time for parents too, one that brings mixed feelings.
So what can we, as parents, do over the next few days to help our children feel ‘school ready’ and to help strengthen their resilience muscle?
SELF-CARE AND SELF-COMPASSION
I spend a lot of time talking to parents and children, and to the professionals who work with them, and one thing is clear – bullying is a real issue for many kids. This is not new. But there is much greater awareness these days in the community of bullying and the harm it can do.
PRACTISING REALISTIC THINKING
The lead up to Christmas and the long school holidays can be stressful for parents. I speak to many parents daily, both in a personal and a professional capacity, and many of them are doing it tough, commenting that they are snapping more at their kids or loved ones, are struggling to sleep, feel ongoing low levels of anxiety or worse.
WHAT PARENTS SHOULD MAKE OF PARENTING STYLES
All children experience worrying thoughts – this is normal. But sometimes these can become excessive, where they overestimate the likelihood and impact of them coming true. This can lead to a range of issues including poor sleep, a lack of focus at school, a reluctance to do things that are outside of their comfort zone and more. What can we do as parents to help our children through these situations?
PARENT AS RESILIENCE COACH
Parents don’t have to look far in the media for articles about different parenting styles and their effects on children’s development – ‘helicopter’ and ‘lawnmower’ parenting styles appear to be the styles du jour, but dig deeper and you’ll find references to attachment, tiger, permissive, authoritarian styles and more. As parents, what are we supposed to make of all of this?
4 TIPS FOR PARENTS TO STRENGTHEN THEIR CHILDREN'S RESILIENCE
We spend a lot of time at Resilience in Kids talking about the concept of ‘Parent as Resilience Coach’ – but what do we mean by this? What does it take to be one? And what is the difference between parenting and resilience coaching – are they not the same thing?
3 TIPS FOR MAKING HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP CHOICES
I’m often asked what we, as parents, can do to strengthen our children’s resilience and become our children’s own “Resilience Coach”. Whilst there are no simple answers and no one size fits all approach, there are a number of behaviours that, if applied consistently by us, will likely shift the dial on their resilience.
14 IDEAS FOR TEACHING KIDS RESILIENCE
We all want our children to make good friendship choices – but what does this mean in practice and how do we help our children make the right choices?
3 TIPS FOR STAYING COOL AND CALM
Coming back from the holidays and it can be hard to resume the school routine that typically consists of far less technology than the summer break. And technology is not the only thing parents need to curb now that the party’s over. Later nights, friends over, TV dinners and more.
Are you finding your kids are losing their temper more quickly, perhaps because they haven’t had enough sleep? How many of you are finding your kids are quicker to tears than normal, maybe because they don’t have enough time to just ‘be’? Has the bickering between your siblings reached new levels?